Bill Eville's collection of essays will be published May 16.
Jeanna Shepard

Finding Home from a Father's Perspective

Crafted from 10 years of essays written for the Gazette, at its heart Bill Eville's new book is a memoir about fatherhood.

If you like to pore over the Gazette on Fridays or look forward to The Notebook on Saturday mornings, you already know him. The signature essays. The quirky musings of a father and husband. The tributes to some person you wish you’d known too — at least the way he did.

But you don’t really know Bill Eville.

That’s because there’s always more to know — even for those who know him well. At 58, the recently-named Gazette editor, prize-winning writer, veteran teacher, fiercely-competitive athlete with a heart as big as the room around him is full of surprises.

In fact his own life has been unconventional and full of surprises. In his newly-released debut book Washed Ashore (published by Godine in Boston), Bill’s many readers and fans will find themselves tugged along in a story that is at once familiar and new.

“That was the hope anyway when I thought about writing it,” he said, perched on a stool in the kitchen of his comfortably-cluttered home in West Tisbury on a rainy Sunday, the last day of April.

“Parenting is such a string of moments — small, medium and large, and which ones mean something? I lived through it again by writing about it,” he said.

On the porch with Artichoke.
Jeanna Shepard
On the porch with Artichoke.
Jeanna Shepard

Crafted from 10 years of essays written for the Gazette, at its heart the book is a memoir about fatherhood. Gracefully written, alternately funny and poignant, it’s full of the people Bill holds close in his life, including his wife Cathlin Baker, who is the minister at the First Congregational Church of West Tisbury, his son Hardy, and daughter, nicknamed Pickle.

But at the outset it wasn’t clear there would even be a book.

“I sort of knew there was good material,” he recalled, speaking about his essays. “And then I looked at it and tried to write it as a full piece. And it was pretty bad.” So he tried a different tack.

“I said okay, I’m going to lay out my essays from end to end. So I kind of went back, [and] it was a cool experience. I realized, I’m not going to do it better than that . . . and then it was like, oh, wait a minute. It can be a collection of essays.”

Godine bought the manuscript in 2021. Next Friday, the Gazette will host a book launch party from 5:30 to 7 p.m. at the newspaper office in Edgartown.

He didn’t always know he wanted to be a writer.

“That wasn’t it,” he said. “I was a huge reader. I spent so much time every summer at the little Oak Bluffs library, which was four doors down from my grandparents’ house. It was like heaven.”

A childhood passion for reading eventually led to writing. But that was many years later — after college at Princeton, after his first job as a banker, which he disliked and left. He was in his 20s, living in New York City and had gone to work at a nonprofit. One day he heard his boss talking about a writing course he was taking.

“I never even knew there were writing courses,” he recalled. “He said there’s this place called The Writers Studio. It’s great. So I signed up. It was down in the West Village; they held the classes in this grammar school.”

He learned to write fiction. “I was hooked,” he said. “It was just so much fun. So freeing. And that’s when it started.”

There were more career changes. After a stint in Thailand teaching through a Princeton program, he spent his 30s working in the film industry in New York City.

“I kept starting over at the bottom,” he laughed. “I don’t recommend it.”

But he was still taking writing classes and had begun teaching writing too. “I had surrounded myself with writing,” he said. “And that’s when I finally decided I had to go all in.”

At 39, he enrolled in an MFA program at Florida State University. By then he and Cathlin were married. They moved to Tallahassee, Fla. where Hardy was born.

Throughout, he said Cathlin was his guidepost.

“Definitely, being with her, seeing how she lived her life, her faith that you walk forward, and it will work out,” he said.

In 2008 Cathlin was called to the ministry in West Tisbury and they moved to the Island permanently. It was a return to the place Bill’s ancestors on his mother’s side, the Hardings, called home. The first Hardings arrived on the Vineyard in the 1700s.

Bill has a strict writing routine. Every morning before the rest of the family is awake, he goes down into the basement that is his writing office, lights two candles and drinks coffee. Then he writes.

He said the discipline can be traced to his many years as a wrestler in high school and college. Wrestling is a key theme in the book.

He frets a little at times about the essays that didn’t make it into the book, and how it will be received.

“I’m curious to know if people will see the characters throughout — if it really does feel like you met this guy when his kids were young, and you say goodbye to him when his oldest leaves for college,” he said. “That’s what I’d love.”

But he doesn’t dwell on it. He’s already begun writing another book in his early-morning basement, this time a work of fiction.

Besides, he’s busy.

In February, Bill was named editor of the Gazette after 13 years at the newspaper.

“I’m still settling in,” he said. “And maybe I’ll always feel like I’m settling in. But I feel so lucky, so grateful for being able to continue this legacy. And to write stories about this place and the people in it and to help the next generation of writers.”

He continues to teach, coaching high school students for their college essays, and of course mentoring young reporters.

“There are two places where I feel most fully myself: writing and teaching,” he said.

“And I think I even feel more fully myself when I’m teaching because I’m in a community. So then the remarkable thing — I go to work at the Gazette, and I don’t really know what I’m getting into, I think I’m just getting into writing, but then it’s teaching writing. It’s like I’ve been training for this my entire life and didn’t even realize it.”

Sunday noon approached. Rain streaked the windows. Inside and out, Bill’s subjects were all around him: the chickens scratching in the back yard, Artichoke the dog snoozing on the couch. Cathlin and Pickle were off at church, Hardy away at his freshman year of college.

There’s a literary line in the book: Proust had his madeleines, Bill has his Island.

“To me that is directly connected to the Gazette,” he said. “I’ve read the Gazette since I could read, on my grandparents’ porch. And then to work for the Gazette — you have to be aware of the entire Island, its history, its people. And for me to know that I’m walking on the place my ancestors walked, and I’m walking on the place my own self as a child walked — there are memories around every corner.”

The public is invited to a book release party at the Gazette on May 12 from 5:30 to 7 p.m.

Comments

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 05/04/2023 - 15:42

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Miguel Harlem

This is a wonderful piece about a wonderful writer, editor, and person. Great job, Ms. Wells!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 05/04/2023 - 17:49

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David Corriveau Lebanon, New Hampshire

Glad to see that Julia Wells has yet to stop writing in what was supposed to be retirement. The perfect person to pen this gem.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 05/05/2023 - 00:39

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Liz Durkee Oak Bluffs

Yeah, Bill!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 05/05/2023 - 05:43

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Joan Dubin Delaware

A wonderful piece that sheds light on the man that gives us The Notebook every Saturday morning.

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rob the roofer new jersey

I've always enjoyed Bills writing and stories of the island and his family. Thank You Julia for your great story of this interesting puzzle piece (Bill Eville's) that makes up part of your Great Island.

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Rachel Reynolds West Tisbury

I have teared up countless times reading The Notebook. Our kids are the same ages, and we have experienced so many of the same emotions of parenthood as so poignantly described in his essays. Bravo, and thank you, Bill, for your weekly gems.

Matt Reynolds West Tisbury

I’m Rachel’s husband. We agree on most things — including these essays. I’m a 50-something year old dad. We have a son who’s a freshman in college, a daughter in high school and a little summer getaway place in West Tis. Bill’s essays uncannily capture and chronicle the exact complex emotions I have felt so many times raising my children in such a sweet and tender way. I look forward to acquiring this collection.

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Harry Seymour Oak Bluffs

Some essays flow so seamlessly from beginning to end that the intimacy with the subject matter is apparent, resulting in a great piece of writing. Such is the case with Well’s account of Bill Eville’s life, conveyed with authenticity, and an admiration for a most worthy subject.

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Thomas Bender Dresser oak bluffs

Saturday morning always opens with The Notebook.
Congrats on a great review of a great writer.
Looking forward to savoring these essays, both the ones I've read and new ones.

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Kevin O’Melia

Congrats Coach Bill! I can’t wait to read it! Bill was my wrestling coach my junior year in high school. I learned so much from him during that time. I was so lucky and appreciated him for coaching us. He inspired a lot of us to work hard to reach our goals.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 05/05/2023 - 19:06

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Samantha Hartley West Tisbury

I already love reading our neighbor Bill's gentle and thoughtful essays in the paper. It will be nice to have them in a book.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 05/06/2023 - 19:11

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Tom Hatch From many places, including Rutgers Pl, Nutley, NJ

Warm hearts and inquisitive minds make interesting reading. I wish you success with your collections and look forward to your venture into fiction.

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Pam Gabriel Mount Pleasant, SC

As a high school classmate of your mom's, I have enjoyed your sweet accounts that she has shared. I am sure you will find a new wider audience with your book. Congratulations. Can't wait to see what's next for you.

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