Mary Orcutt, 73

Mary Orcutt, 73

Friday, October 17, 2025 - 12:16pm

Mary Orcutt, of West Tisbury, died at home on Oct. 12 surrounded by her family and friends. She was 73.

She was born on January 14, 1952 in Elmhurst, N.Y, the youngest child of James and Anne Ring. Mary, along with her older brother Jim, and sister Geri grew up in Queens Village, N.Y. with a large extended family of relatives from her Dad’s Irish and her Mother’s Polish heritage. Family played an important part in Mary’s life, as did her faith.

She was a 1970 graduate of St Agnes High School in New York, and a 1974 graduate of Stonehill College with a degree in Spanish and secondary education. Her first job out of school was as a Spanish teacher at Bishop Stang High School in North Dartmouth, where she later became the department chair for languages.

In 1975, she married her college sweetheart, Greg Orcutt of Edgartown, and they lived on the Southcoast as Mary continued her teaching career. In 1979, Mary and Greg moved to Marshfield, where she and Greg could be close to the ocean and beaches that they loved. Later that year she gave birth to their daughter Meaghan, and in 1982 she gave birth to their second child, Elizabeth.

Martha’s Vineyard had always had a strong pull on all the family, and in 2001 they moved to the Island. Mary became the store manager for Good Dog Goods in Oak Bluffs and now had a job that allowed her to follow one of her passions: being with dogs. Few things gave her more happiness than being surrounded by her family and her pet dogs.

Later, she accepted an opportunity to become a manager at the Clarion Hotel in Edgartown. She loved welcoming guests and helping them have a memorable visit to the Island.

After she retired from work, she accepted her most important role, that of grandmother to her six grandchildren. Part of every grandchild’s birthday present was a personally sung rendition of Happy Birthday.

She was an accomplished baker and cook and enjoyed creating new dishes or enhancements to longstanding recipes.

Mary is survived by her husband Greg, her daughter Meaghan Esposito, and son-in-law Nico, daughter Elizabeth Pate, and son-in-law Michael and her sister Geri Oliveri. She also leaves grandchildren, Ele, Noel, Matilda, Genevieve, William and Caroline.

A memorial service will be held at a later date.

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 10/16/2025 - 10:45

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Jane Rossi West Tisbury

Greg, I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 10/17/2025 - 08:39

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Lynn Christoffers WEST TISBURY

Dear Greg, So sorry to hear you have lost Mary. She was a brave patient for so long. I remember the fun we had doing the census together many years ago. Love to all and the dogs.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 10/17/2025 - 09:24

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BethAnn Hiller S CA

Sincere condolences. May friends and family divide your grief and multiply your joy. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers

Respectfully,
BethAnn Hiller

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 10/20/2025 - 18:35

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John McLane Asheville NC

Greg, Very sorry to hear the sad news. Thinking of you and your family. John

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 10/20/2025 - 19:01

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Rob McLane Asheville, NC

Dear Greg, I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss of Mary.
You will be in my prayers. Sincerely, Robbie

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 10/21/2025 - 07:27

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Caroline Taylor Edgartown

Greg I’m so sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. Hugs to you and your family. Caroline

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 10/21/2025 - 10:28

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Suzy Schockett Lancaster,SC

Dear Greg (and family)
So very sorry for the loss of Mary, may she RIP.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 10/26/2025 - 16:37

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Cheryl Kinnecom Cullinan Seminole Fl

Greg, I am so sorry about Mary. You and your family are in my prayers

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 11/03/2025 - 19:34

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Deborah Pedersen SPYDEBERG

Dear Greg and all your family,so very sorry for your loss. My sincerest condolences.

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