Social distance with Grandad along Inkwell Beach.
Painting by Harry Seymour

In a Time to Be Old

A side by side stroll is a ghost of the past.

A side by side stroll is a ghost of the past
Stepping into an emotional abyss six-feet wide
A division of heart from soul
This costly toll keeping families apart
Yet, for old guys like me distance is key.

After all, old is as old does
When Covid-19 is the cause
“I’m as old as I feel,” I’m not
“Eighty is the new 60,” forget that
Corona calls the shots as if almighty
And, vulnerability is a senior’s reality.

Feeling younger is no longer sought
My only thought is to get older
With compliance to CDC my science
I’m protecting everyone else by protecting myself
With no cure in sight I must isolate
Hiding like hell from the bug’s deadly bite

Life and death reside in my own hands
Wash ‘em ‘till they crack whenever I can
The primary defensive attack is to stay at home
A prison of sorts is a safe haven of choice
With the warden, my wife an ally
Surviving as a single unit a must
No “she “or “I,” just “us.”

All the drama at play is simply surreal
Not unlike a Shakespearean metaphor
Life, a rehearsal with no curtain call or encore
The absurdity of it all
Reminds me of Woody Allen’s refrain
“I’m not afraid of death;
I just don’t want to be there when it happens.”
In a time to be old

Comments

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 07:04

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Arnie Reisman Vineyard Haven

Nicely done, Harry, and on the money. Love those internal rhymes & cadences. You speak for my age. Thanks.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 08:02

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Doug Dale

Mr. Seymour, Not only are you a brilliant diverse artist you are a sage of our human tribe. You give voice to the status of age I experience every morning BEFORE coffee.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 08:12

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joan malkin chilmark

What a haunting and utterly beautiful painting, Harry. I'm so struck by the painting that I haven'
t even gotten to the poem!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 09:05

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Jules Bernstein Washington, D.C.

Hi, Harry. I know you will remember me, Jules Bernstein. I’m the guy who bought your Michelle-Barack “fist bump” scratch painting some time ago on the Vineyard. It hangs proudly in our home here in D.C. as a wonderful reminder of better times. Today is my 85th birthday and I look upon your poem as an unexpected birthday gift from an old friend. Like you, I am sequestered here at home with my wife, Linda, without plans to spend our usual glorious summer on the Vineyard, but with the hope that things will improve, especially after Election Day in November. So let’s “keep on, keepin’ on,” and do our best to keep our spirits up while hoping for many more and better tomorrows.

Harry Seymour Oak Bluffs

Happy Birthday Jules. I remember you well as one who lifted my spirits by your purchase of "Yes we Can," a title apropos to our current COVID situation and your optimism.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 09:08

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Margaret Vero Beach

Now that is a creative way of putting life today into perspective. God bless you and your wife each day!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 10:21

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Gil Williams Lincoln MA & Oak Bluffs

Ah to be old is a gift today. As always (all ways) Harry, spot on. We take delight in whatever form life presents itself.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 11:51

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Mike Smith Washington, DC

Harry, once again you have hit it out of the ballpark with this very timely artistic piece. I love your brilliance in incorporating the innocence and curiosity of the child with the watchful eye and ready to be there for him by the old man. It was important to have the closeness of the ghost, because we know as grandparents it is only the Covid-19 virus that forces the old man to maintain a social distance.
It is obvious from the physique of the old man .... very broad shoulders ...that he is a former competitive swimmer. Most likely swam for HU “you know”.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 12:55

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Monina von Opel Chilmark

Such an evocative painting; love your new direction. And, yes we are in an emotional abyss six feet wide...you put it perfectly.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 13:30

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Raymond Randolph and Oak Bluffs

While hunkered down off Island, I drift into dreams of the Vineyard and when I will chase Blythe on the sand. I never thought about age, but now I think of it everyday. I'm glad that I can. Thank you for your "gifts" and the thoughtfulness to share. We are blessed every single day!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 13:51

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Hudie Fleming Washington DC

Harry as usual you are right on. I am locked down here with my wife Peggy, aka Management. Your poem is beautiful and your friendship is everlasting. Thank you.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 14:01

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Judy Brooks Golf / sister of Candy Carr Vail Colorado

You’re artistry and writing are soothing and inspirational.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 14:06

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Henry Whitted Washington, DC

Hey Harry,
Hudie sent me this poem, I think it is beautiful. Getting old is more than a notion and I feel that your poem puts a new perspective on getting old. We were on the swimming team together at Howard University. I was an Art Major when in school (See Tai and I were Art Majors).

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 15:13

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Deborah Sarasota

Dear Harry
What a wonderful representation of how we feel as grandparents. The painting captured exactly what I feel at this moment after FaceTiming with my granddaughter who is on the Vineyard. Your painting is inspirational. It’s haunting. It’s beautiful, Harry you are so creative! I love your work.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 15:24

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Deborah Sarasota

Harry, I commented on the painting but failed to respond to the poem. The sentimentality certainly represents the zeitgeist of this period of social isolation and social distancing. Beautiful!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2020 - 17:01

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Michael Brown Newton, Ma

Harry Seymour is the epitome of a gentleman. He is apart from being a great artist, a kind and caring human being. If you don’t know him you should...

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 05/13/2020 - 08:58

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Bettie Eubanks Palm Coast Florida

After eight weeks of self-inflicted shut-in...I’m feeling like the elderly. The elderly that are often treated that ghosts. Your words are inflicting and uplifting like that child. Happy as long as he can be where is papa side

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 05/15/2020 - 21:56

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Pam Tillis Amherst, MA

Dear Harry, your painting and poem are so beautifully poignant. Thank you very much for sharing your gifts with the world.

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