In frightening times, it is perhaps a universal feeling to prioritize the safety of our family over all else.
In frightening times, it is perhaps a universal feeling to prioritize the safety of our family over all else. To that end, we draw close to our immediate community and too frequently turn our backs on others. Our year-round community is being challenged at the moment. We have real concerns about resources and exposure to Covid 19 that should not be taken lightly. On the other hand, we as a community need to think about our words (spoken and written) and our actions.
In recent weeks as Covid 19 infection has spread throughout the country there are more and more reports of ill-feeling toward non year-round residents moving to rural communities. This is particularly true in areas that have a tourist economy with a lot of second homes such as Martha’s Vineyard. It is assumed that these non year-round residents are moving from areas with higher rates of Covid infection and that they may be infected and will potentially infect others and use up limited resources.
The immediate sentiment is understandable, that is “this is our community and they are bringing Covid here.” I think it important that all visitors and returning Islanders self-quarantine for 14 days and let the local boards of health agents know that they are here. However, I suspect that such measures of self-quarantine would not stop the negative statements.
So who are these visitors to Martha’s Vineyard who are potentially bringing disease? Some of them are our parents and our children and they are coming to live with us. Some are Islanders returning from the winter in Florida where there is a high infection rate. Some are seasonal residents, our neighbors, our friends who are coming to live in their own houses. They are members of our community. In fact, this place that we choose to live would not be the same without them. Some are visitors who are renting houses because they may be at high risk and feel safer here and, it is true, have the financial means to do so.
Martha’s Vineyard is a largely rural area where it is relatively easy to self-quarantine and socially isolate. While beds are limited we have a modern well-staffed hospital. We know that hospitals in urban areas are overwhelmed with patients. Who are we to criticize someone who lives in an apartment in a crowded city for coming here? If we were able, would we not do the same in similar circumstances? Would you tell your closest friend not to come here? The fear that we feel for our safety and family is the same fear felt by our visitors
Again, I don’t seek to minimize the community’s concerns. We do have limited hospital resources. All people coming to the Island should understand and consider this before making the decision to travel. But no community has adequate hospital resources when there is a pandemic.
These are frightening times. It is probably human nature to want someone to blame. But the answer is not blaming the outsider. It is realizing that Covid 19 infection is here on Martha’s Vineyard with or without visitors. We have 10 lab documented cases and there are more in the community. We all, year-round residents and visitors alike, have to maintain vigilant social distancing so that the least number become ill.
I hope that when this pandemic has been brought to heel, that the Island can look back on its words and actions during these frightening times and feel pride in the way that we responded as a community, working together to maintain the safety of all.
Dr. Henry Nieder is the former chairman of primary care at the Martha’s Vineyard Hospital. He retired in 2018.

Comments
Thank you for these words.
Aeolian EdgarownThank you for these words. They are so important for all to read.
Supportive of the overall
Chris KatamaSupportive of the overall message however some of the us vs. them still comes through. You say " It is probably human nature to want someone to blame. But the answer is not blaming the outsider." Who is the "outsider" Is it the full time resident, perhaps even renter, who has been on the island a few years, or the family that has owned the home for 40 years but only comes during the summer? This is the problem with labels.
Just for the purposes of this
M EdgartownJust for the purposes of this particular conversation, I would define an "outsider" as "someone who also has a place off-island, where if the nearest hospital is full, there is another hospital down the road - and another, and another - reachable by car or bus at any time of day or night."
That's an outsider.
The answer is neither as long
Jess Great PlainsThe answer is neither as long as both are not traveling here, there or anywhere.
Excellent article. Taken to
Maryann L Niantic CTExcellent article. Taken to heart.
So good to hear my (retired)
Nancy Dole West TisburySo good to hear my (retired) doctor’s voice.
Well put. The hate and
Thomas edgartownWell put. The hate and aggressive tone of people on Facebook and in person is shameful. As a 25 year seasonal resident I have compiled a list off of Facebook of the business people that have spewed hate. They will NEVER get one more dollar of my money. This is my home too and it doesn't matter if I have a different license plate than you. Tough times like these bring out the true character of people and I don't like what I see.
I agree. I will not forget
Edgartownite EdgartownI agree. I will not forget the hateful talk by many on Islanders (Ihaters) Talk (Facebook group) and in other forums. It's disgraceful. Never do they mention the number of Islanders that were going off-island to places like Market Basket, Home Depot, Walmart etc. and then coming right back. That group of hateful people has completely stained my view of the Island community.
Hopefully our view of summer
M EdgartownHopefully our view of summer residents will not be similarly tainted by the comments some of them have made about the importance of their tax dollars, their personal property rights which apparently trump common sense health measures, and the withholding of future donations because of hurt feelings.
Please share the list. The
Katama Sadness EdgartownPlease share the list. The vile reaction from
“Islanders” will take a long long time to heal. Do not be looking off island for charitable support.
Please share the list, not
Mason NHPlease share the list, not for spiteful retaliation, but I’d rather not go where I’m not wanted. I have no current plans to come to our 2nd home until this is over, but this article is much appreciated.
Great article and I agree
Maggie EdgartownGreat article and I agree with Thomas...I have noted those I hope never to have to deal with! "Look for the helpers".. much of the rhetoric is NOT helpful!
Thomas, wholeheartedly agree
Greg OBThomas, wholeheartedly agree and I’m with you!
If people do not feel safe
Sara Oak BluffsIf people do not feel safe where they are (for any reason) and they have the means and ability to go to a place where they do feel safe, then they should be able to do that. And let's not forget who built our beautiful, modern hospital. (hint: not all year-round people). People coming here should have the grace to isolate themselves for 14 days, but should be welcomed. Good and thoughtful article, Dr. Neider! Thank you for an injection of sanity into the understandable fear.
Well said, Sara. I was
John Riverside, RIWell said, Sara. I was working at The Vineyard Golf Club when two members started the process of funding for the Hospital. I remember hearing that prior to going to the general public, they had already received pledges of 30 million in donations from people they knew. Why do these people not deserve to utilize the hospital they paid for? They made sure the new facility had a connection to the best Boston Health care system, so the hospital would not have to care for ALL the people on the Island. My father started coming to MV in 1940 and he reminds me every Summer that the Islander/Off Islander tension has been here as long as people have been coming. Some things never change. But, you can't take away the Good in people. There is so much in this world, I am grateful!
That last paragraph really
Sara Dingledy TisburyThat last paragraph really resonates. Thank you for writing this, and thank you for your service.
Thank you Dr. Nieder. My
June Manning AquinnahThank you Dr. Nieder. My exact sentiments. While socially distancing in Aquinnah, I think of the college students returning home from across the country as their campuses have closed. Or, the many families who vacation in warmer climes during the winter and their winter rentals have ended and they must return home to the Vineyard. Or those vacationing around the world and eager to be back home. We are fortunate so far with the stay at home rules being followed. Reading up to the minute news in the Vineyard Gazette each day is encouraging to make one realize we must be doing something right. So let's continue with social isolation as we await the flattening out of this Covid-19 virus.
Thank you Henry! Well done!
Marge Harris Oak BluffsThank you Henry! Well done!
This is all well and good,
A S EdgartownThis is all well and good, but what is the first thing a person who comes here from out state does? They go to the grocery store because they can't isolate for 14 days without food. It really is an impossible thing to do.
I have been coming to the
Mike WTI have been coming to the island for 67 years.
I always bring most of my food from off island if possible to avoid the high cost of everything - because MV is an island most things are brought there. Which costs extra money on top of the cost of the item.
If I were to come - which I didn't, I would have brought most of the food I would need.
What you wrote was an exaggerated untruth, and flies in the face of people that know the island probably better than you. Not all seasonal home owners are wealthy. You are probably much more wealthy than 50% of the seasonal home owners. Heck, most of have or had 2 mortgages.
An extremely thoughtful and
Matt EdgartownAn extremely thoughtful and dare I say Christian sentiment in the best sense of the word. Without adequate testing, it’s really not possible to know who has the virus and who doesn’t. The virus came from Wuhan, China, so of course if its on the island someone brought it here. But to assume it’s a second homeowner in a big German SUV is as unfair as saying its a day worker from Falmouth, since without testing we simply don’t know. It’s important to keep your cool and watch what you say at a time like this. There are countless examples throughout history - internment of Japanese citizens during WW2, McCarthyism directed at suspected communists in the 50s, for example - when a subsequent look-back revealed that the hysterical and bigoted among us showed their true colors.
Well put Dr. Neider! Here's a
ZephyrWell put Dr. Neider! Here's a hint for those worried about these issues. Don't use Facebook! Ignore the Twitter trolls! The people spewing the hate are a tiny minority of the population, and there are many more in the silent and good majority who aren't tweeting and on FB. Yes, there are bad people around, but many more good ones who understand we are all in this together.
I appreciate your article,
Mary Vineyard HavenI appreciate your article, and I also appreciate the full-time residents concerns. I have a year round home, but am not a full-time resident. Staying home in NH for now. Thank you for seeing both sides. Mary
I work with a couple of guys
Artie Lange Hoboken, NJ and MVI work with a couple of guys that I can promise you are not Rhodes Scholars. Because so much of their lives is based on the trash spewed on the local Facebook pages I knew immediately to avoid them which I always have. Don't do the same thing these guys do. Don't judge all people who live out here based on a vocal minority made up of the lowest common denominator. Anyone with an IQ above 80 can figure out that the Island economy is sunk without seasonal homeowners, weekly renters, and old fashioned tourists. You don't have to prove your IQ is above 80 to have your comments printed on those trash Facebook pages.
Thank you for this thoughtful
Denise OB/NJThank you for this thoughtful response to the distasteful comments that have been directed towards families who choose to move into their own homes. Know that we are staying at home and have no desire to spread or contract the virus. While I’ve been disappointed with the islanders who have been so mean-spirited, their attitude could not keep me away from the island that has been my second home for more than 50 years. I hoped that MV would be a sanctuary for my children as it has been for me. However, the recent animus will surely give them pause. Stay healthy.
Stay safe. Take care of one another.
Amen, Doctor and Neighbor!!
Arnie Reisman Vineyard HavenAmen, Doctor and Neighbor!!
I was gratified to read your
C.W. Oak BluffsI was gratified to read your piece, Dr. Nieder. We can appreciate the fear that drove some islanders to target seasonal residents for "othering." It's the same fear that made us leave a crowded city and travel here. We drove up with tons of groceries, stayed in our car on the ferry, and drove straight to our MV house. Three weeks later, we are still in self-quarantine (with no symptoms, knock wood). At the end of the day, we all want the same thing: safety for our families. If things were somehow reversed, we would have welcomed fleeing islanders to our city. And also if things were reversed, I suspect the "othering" chorus would have done exactly what we did.
Really, how many times do we
Diane EdgartownReally, how many times do we have to say the same thing? It is ridiculous to think people who own homes here shouldn’t be allowed to come. Hopefully they will stay well, isolate and live by the rules of our community. Communities in Colorado ski country are totally closing their towns. Do you think it’s because they are mean spirited? It won’t be long for this terrible virus to pass. So everyone show respect and follow the rules. This is no longer a community of cottages without heat so people were seasonal. Today most home owners come and go year round. That’s the reality.
Yes, except some people
Conflicted EdgartownYes, except some people behave badly, and they ruin the reputation of those in "that group:" the person yesterday with out of state plates furtively picking daffodils on the side of the road in Chilmark ...and the fact that shopping once a week the past two weeks there has been nothing on the shelves of the supermarket...the fact that I cannot go out and walk at my usual times because there are so many people out who do not practice social distancing and behave as if it is summer. It is a bit like 9/11...some of us know several people (off island) who are fighting for their lives, who are on the front lines in hospitals across the country...others just don't relate (yet) and go about as they always have. No wonder there is resentment and pain, and to minimize this is naive and tone deaf.
There is not “nothing on the
DownislanderThere is not “nothing on the shelves” in the grocery store. I’ve been going once every 10 days and find it well stocked with the exception of a very few items. Stop exaggerating.
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