Ray Ewing

Sweeping Out the Holiday Season

I don’t mind taking down the tree. 
 It has served its purpose. At first it was a welcome holiday guest but it took up a lot of room and I wanted my living room back.

I don’t mind taking down the tree. 
 It has served its purpose. At first it was a welcome holiday guest but it took up a lot of room and finally, I confess, I wanted my living room back. I began to miss the sunlight through the big windows and the space to move past the rocking chair without squeezing sideways.

I feel much the same way about all the ornaments we’ve collected over the decades. Like hosting dozens of well-behaved little children who never make a peep, never grow any bigger, but it’s time to go, kids. I treasured each little angel and snowman as they let go of the tree. I wrapped them lovingly in last year’s saved-up tissue paper to be stored away in a cardboard box that once brought us oranges from Florida. My favorite is the miniature bird feeder, a tube the size of a birthday candle with holes and perches occupied by small cardinals and sparrows, munching on birdseed no bigger than poppy seed. It’s given an important spot up front, year after year.

After the tree was dragged outdoors today, I swept up a green mound of fallen needles, including one glittering strand of tinsel. Tinsel has not been hung from or tossed onto our tree for several years; this one must have sneaked out of its Florida oranges box somehow after a long stretch of incarceration. Tinsel will not disappear. Before, back when we hauled the old tree over to the bushes at the property boundary, some tinsel blended in with the shrubbery until a nice summer day when it began to send out an SOS to those of us soaking up the sunshine. I don’t like reminders of December in July.

This year’s used tree is now rolling around on the front lawn in the breeze, a tumbling tumble tree. But its life is not over. It will go from here to protect a dune or feed a goat, whichever opportunity comes first — one of the things I like about our new sensibilities.

On with the new. It threatens to be an interesting time. For many Island friends, happier than last year, I hope.

I like to think that years from now, family members who are familiar with these old ornaments will continue to hang them from new trees that aren’t even seedlings yet. The tree this year has a new star on top from Rainy Day. The old star came with a clip that bit into the top upright twig. But last year the clip broke and the crippled star remained in the box, hoping for some sort of redemption.

Aren’t we all. Happy new year.

Eileen Maley lives in West Tisbury.

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 01/03/2019 - 14:52

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Shirley W. Mayhew West Tisbury

A lovely description of what many of us go through this time of year -

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 01/04/2019 - 07:37

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arnie reisman vineyard haven

Bravo, Eileen!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 01/04/2019 - 09:25

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Cynthia Riggs West Tisbury

To read more of Eileen's writing, buy a copy of her new book, "No Fixed Address." A tale of her world travels in the 1970s that's hilarious in places, scary in others (although we know she comes through okay), a love story (although she would vigorously deny that), and a remarkable account of how she and Tim witnessed a raft of major world events. Most of all, a great read.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 01/04/2019 - 09:48

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Mark Bradshaw OB

A+

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Katherine Siebel Kunhiraman Berekeley, CA

Hello Eileen, I enjoyed your piece, and my mind had those moments to wander the Vineyard, our favorite place on earth. So many memories, our families knew each other since the early 1940s when Tim's mother ran a nursery school in Ossining. Please give my best to Tim. We are just grieving now, for Margaret, whom Tim may remember, died on new year's day. Leggetts all gone now as well. Wishes for all things good in the new year. Kakie

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 01/04/2019 - 13:01

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Joan Jenkinson West Tisbury

Dear Eileen. I love this so much. I am no going thru 55 years of Christmas tree decorations and was going to toss a lot of them but after reading this I am saving them and putting in organized labeled boxes. Thank you Eileen

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 01/04/2019 - 13:16

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Debby Randolph NYC

Eileen's tender eye transforms Christmas trinkets into cherished living things! Delightful!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 01/09/2019 - 09:28

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keepa lowe west tis

Amen Sister....rolled up my own sleeves yesterday,tackled the dismantlement,and now have my living room back too! ps Before tree heads to its final resting place I have my husband give it the once over to make sure all is clear!

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