The community remembered the Rev. Brian J. P. Murdoch, priest in charge of Grace Episcopal Chuch in Vineyard Haven, at his burial service in the Grace Church Memorial Garden on Saturday.

Remembering a Man Who Listened Intently and Left Us Too Soon

This time - his sister said these were his happiest times, just a few years living on Martha’s Vineyard.

This time — his sister said these were his happiest times
Just a few years living on Martha’s Vineyard
Where you can hear the earth, see its unblocked beauty
Where God can still find work as a puppeteer.

Like any decent romantic, he came, saw and conquered
Father Brian, serving as minister to the Episcopal flock,
A good soul who walked among us costumed in black
So we can walk with him and not be blinded by his light.

Spellbinding, he reached into hearts, listened to the ticking
Eyes on fire with comprehension forged with compassion
Leaning in for the sound that sings ‘we are not alone’
Spellbound, he left us, mouths torn open, wounds fresh.

He listened intently — and spoke with a language of empathy
He listened intently — as he broke bread, he blended friendships
He listened intently — as his eyes widened, our eyes opened
He listened intently, then left too soon.

In body a man of the cloth, in spirit a man of the wind and air
A gentle juggler of give and take until unbalanced sugars took him away
Then our natures unbalanced tried in vain to comprehend
He was too alive not to be here still.

As earth and ash stir and settle, he continues to listen to the roots
Of grace, continues to find haven in the Vineyard peace
Totally hallowed now, these church grounds have been baptized
And blessed with the fire of Father Brian — this time.

 

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 12/06/2016 - 07:21

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Gladys Seedorf Battle Creek Michigan

Sounds like he was a true gift to the world and now God has called his child home. I recently attended a funeral of a very good friend and during the eulogy the Pastor said, "Loretta is not dead, she simply went out of one door and she entered another one" Indeed she had left this world, but now she rejoices among family and friends in that beautiful city called Haven. I couldn't be happier.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 12/06/2016 - 07:30

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Molly Conole Oak Bluffs

Such a beautiful, loving and spot-on tribute to a truly lovely man. Thank you, Arnie.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 12/06/2016 - 10:12

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Eileen Hamblin Melrose, MA

So grateful that I checked the Gazette for information about this weekend's festivities in Edgartown and elsewhere. The poem about Father Brian blessed my day and made me think about things more important than Christmas cookies and holiday parades. I didn't know Father Brian, to my regret, but Arnie Reisman's salute introduced me to him. Today I'm going to concentrate on being a better listener and a better helper. Thank you for publishing A Man who Listened Intently.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 12/06/2016 - 11:53

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Nancy kingsley V H, MA

Now I don't feel the house across the street is so empty, Arnie. Thank you.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 12/06/2016 - 13:38

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Donna Murdoch York Harbor, Maine

Arnie, thank you for this tender poem read the day we buried Brian in the memorial garden of his beloved Grace Church.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 12/06/2016 - 16:43

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Kate (Murdoch) Newcomb Sanford, Maine

Arnie, your gifted creativity gives "Life to Words" and this poem flowed with "Words of Life" vividly honoring our brother Brian. We will be forever grateful that you too are a man who listens well and responses with a gracious understanding. Kate for the Family.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 12/06/2016 - 19:11

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Polly Simpkind Vineyard Haven

Thank you for these beautiful words and for capturing this great man.
Living next door to this sacred being has been a true gift to our family, and I'll be forever grateful he is still right next door, in the wind and air (as you said) still very much alive and as always ready for a chat, a hug and his stunning words of wisdom, now and always.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 12/07/2016 - 11:15

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Laurie Howick Oak Bluffs

I only knew Father Brian from our conversations when I picked up my lobster rolls on Friday afternoons, but I felt a connection to him and am very saddened to learn of his death. My sincere condolences to his family and his Grace Church flock. Martha's Vineyard has lost a fine man.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 07/27/2017 - 19:29

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Paul Logan Washington, DC

When I think of the life of Fr. Brian, I am reminded of the lyrics from "In the Embers." He lived, and he died like fireworks that pull apart the darkness -- a darkness that attempts to hide our brilliance. I miss you, Fr. Brian!

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