I came to the woods late in the game. Trees, now my guides, beckon and enlighten. I swear they talk to me. And I am learning to listen.
I came to the woods late in the game. Trees, now my guides, beckon and enlighten. I swear they talk to me. And I am learning to listen. I know that teachers appear at unexpected times and in surprisingly varied disguises. They don’t always stand at a chalk board in sensible shoes. They can be towering pines or twisted scrubby oak.
And I’ve always heard when you are ready, the teacher is there.
During a walk to Lobsterville Beach, I suddenly feel the need to take a sharp right turn into one of my favorite land bank spots. I park and pat myself on the back for realizing I need not to be in the open space of sun and sky, but cradled in the quiet of my own mini Muir Woods.
I get out of the car and for some reason, even though I hate maps, I walk up to the glassed-in case thinking for once I will plan my route. I have always resisted reading maps. I’m not sure if my disdain comes from the small print and my weak eyes or some kind of dyslexia or my childhood experience of someone yelling at someone, “quick just tell me where to turn, can’t you read the damn thing?”
As I stand there I actually become dizzy. My vision blurs and I have the distinct revelation that I have an actual fear of maps. Then I hear the unmistakable roar of a giant lawn mower.
Darn it, I think. I came here for silence. And I need my trees. Oh well, I figure I’ll go in the opposite direction. I climb up the hill, wave at the fellow and he cuts his engine and approaches me.
“Hi, gorgeous day,” I say.
“Sure is,” he says. “Sorry for the noise. I just started the job.”
“No problem,” I say. Why make the guy feel bad. “I’ll just go on down to the beach.”
“Well, wait a minute,” he says. “There are lots of really great walks I can turn you on to. Do you have a conservation lands map?”
“Oh, I’m not good with maps. Thanks anyway.”
At this point I am talking to his back as he heads to his mower. I watch him climb up, rustle through some stuff and come back unfolding a huge Atlas-type of thing. He proceeds to spread it out on a nearby flat rock. He is just about to begin his lecture when I say, “really I can’t read these things. So I’m kind of useless.”
He continues undaunted. “See this here? We just bought all this land right here.”
His finger traces along an edge of the paper as he looks up to see if I am following. Of course I am not following. I am gazing off into the middle distance. But he perseveres. “See this,” he says. “I just finished mowing there, so this one is absolutely gorgeous. You just have to drive to Outermost Inn. You know where Huey’s place is, right?”
“Yeah, it’s beautiful there,” I say, trying to let him know I have no intention of going.
“Well, you’ll have to park your car at the end at the town lot and then walk, but the walk is nothing.”
I interrupt him. “Actually, I’m all set. I’m just gonna stroll on the beach.”
He continues: “If you don’t want to do that one, have you been out to Chappy recently? We just got this, what’s her name, I can’t think of her name, but she donated all this terrific property so now you can go from here to here.” He travels with his pointer finger across green and blue and brown blobs. “It’s spectacular there now.”
The thrill of a lifetime, I’m thinking, would be getting away from this man. Pretending to be interested, I’m actually plotting my escape. The dude is relentless. Somehow I’ve wandered into Map Reading 101, a course I have managed to avoid my whole life. Why doesn’t this guy hear me? Why doesn’t he get that I’m not going on any of his walks?
And then it hits me. When you are ready the teacher is there. He’s the teacher. Funny, I hadn’t thought I was ready. I never do. This happens to me all the time. Why do I forget? Hello. I was the one who had wanted to go into the woods. I was the one who happened to have some extra time. I was the one who approached him first. And here next to the rock with the map spread out with sunlight shining and illuminating all the words so I can actually read them, is a patient professor so anxious to share his joy and his passion. I gulp and I stop my stupid resistance and fall into the reverie he has offered me right from the start.
Turns out, it’s not just a map. It’s a travel brochure with great writing, and with trails I never knew existed and long lovely narratives like this one: “The property’s dozen roadside acres are grassy and hilly; notable is the white oak near the hilltop with its stately crown...geologists will especially like the red trail in the woodlands as it follows the crest of a long esker.”
I have to look up esker. It’s a long winding ridge of stratified sand and gravel occurring in formerly glaciated regions.
Here is another description: “The corridor is profuse; nesting songbirds are abundant, and include yellow warblers, redstarts, common yellow throats and oven birds. Footbridges span the brook which drains into Chilmark upper pond easing hikers into habitats which would have been too dense or remote to visit.”
There are 61 of these walks, 61 descriptions, 61 new places for me to explore. So once again, no sensible shoes, no chalk board, not even a talking oak. This time the teacher is an enthusiastic Vineyard Conservation guy. I write this so you will help me remember.
Nancy Slonim Aronie is the author of Writing from the Heart (Hyperion) and the founder of the Chilmark Writing Workshop on Martha’s Vineyard.

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I know this guy! I had the
Rosemary williams White plains NYI know this guy! I had the exact same experience and treasure the map he shared with me!
"when the student is ready
beth tveit oak bluffs"when the student is ready the teacher will appear" on of my favorite Buddhist teachings and so very true. I love love love maps
for many different reasons, I often use them in my art projects. After reading your wonderful piece I am going to get a new land bank
map. I have always been very drawn to trees as they speak to me of their strength and resilience.
I cry whenever I read
Suzanne Vick Franklin, MAI cry whenever I read anything written by Nancy Arione, just because I love her so much and she reawakened my love of writing, and my favorite tree is a Birtch New Englands' white ghosts fragile and more beautiful with age.
What a wonderful story. It's
jackson west springfieldWhat a wonderful story. It's so true, when we are ready the lessons are there to soak in. I always say,if we close our mouths and open our minds we will learn loads. Thank you for this reminder.
When someone starts to pull a
Martha Magee I Love YouWhen someone starts to pull a map out for me or wants to draw one, I put my hand up in the stop position and say,
" Can you just point?"
Good for you Nancy. Great to
Jeanne Barron West TisburyGood for you Nancy. Great to be a flexible life-long learner. I've always loved my walks with you. Can we do again?
Dear Ms. Nancy, it never
Rajka Ungerer EdgartownDear Ms. Nancy, it never ceases to amaze me how often and how much you so beautifuly share your insights, your wisdom, your love of life. I think we should elect you to be our ambasadoress of the Vneyard. YOu got my vote! Thank you, indeed, for being you.
Shall we start the campaign?
How may I get in touch with
PhyllHow may I get in touch with this wise sage? And get a copy of the map?
Sounds wonderful!
I guess the lesson here is
Roberta Bender Silbert Guilford ConnecticutI guess the lesson here is that everyone we encounter can be our teacher if only we allow ourselves to listen closely with our heart. Once again I thank you Nancy.
Interesting that you
Ellen Drexler BUFFALOInteresting that you published this just prior to our first conversation, when you were to be my equivalent of the conservation guy. I love those moments of grace! Must write them down somewhere.....
You know I grew up in the
Darlene Smith-Ash Springfield, MAYou know I grew up in the woods, right? Spent most of my tree time in the uppermost arm that would hold me, then go up one more... I was always at home in the crunchy oaks, sweet, smooth maples and whisper-y pines. Never could I figure out why Mom used pine tar and cuss words to get the pine pitch out of my braids, but that was, well, a long time ago, and now I know.
Some people instinctively get that they need the trees to live; not in the botanical-biological sense, but to learn from the Earth and to hear their hearts. Mom had a small grove of pines in the woods in back of the house which she referred to as her "crying trees". She'd go there when things got bad. After she died, my sister and I walked the barefoot-worn path to the trees. One, the one in the middle, was seeping water from a place about seven feet from the ground. It did that for several weeks and then stopped; its grief over.
Rocks, water, trees, clouds, trees... I occasionally forget my teachers too, Nance, but rarely you: graceful and giving willow, I can see you hugging trees.
- Darr
A few years ago I heard my 21
Greg Anton Sebastopol, CaliforniaA few years ago I heard my 21-yr-old daughter say to her 19-yr-old brother; "let's smoke a joint and go climb up the redwood trees." (we have a half-dozen tall redwoods on our property). I slipped out the back door, out to the forest, climbed high, and waited patiently, in conversation with the tree I was hugging. A half-hour later, Heidi, half way up, looked above her...Jake heard her gasp. It took them both a long moment to get what they were looking at. When the laughter died down Jake said: "Good parenting dad."
Trees--grounded yet reaching
Jan Wellsville, PATrees--grounded yet reaching for the stars. Nancy for President!
Lovely piece, Nancy. I love
Katherine Hauswirth Deep River, CTLovely piece, Nancy. I love your openness and enthusiasm, and I love the woods and trails so practically drooling as I hear about this promising brochure! Took what are your workshops many years ago at Mercy Center, and it was a great experience. Thank you.
Katherine
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Thank you for your writing. I
Christine Cissy White South Shore, MAThank you for your writing. I love it. I resist so much of life right in front of me. This reminds me to pause, to bend and to pay attention. THANK YOU. I love your voice, your insights and your honesty.
Cis
Beautiful story on the
Tara Bahna-James Chilmark, MABeautiful story on the benefits of surrender! Thank you so much for sharing it!
Your pieces always come at
Linda Shaughnessy Florence, MAYour pieces always come at the right time for me, Nancy. I am soon going on a short sojourn to get away and fill up the reserves a little and I needed the reminder about teachers and being open. Remembering that makes venturing into the unknown less intimidating and fearful to me and more like a quest or treasure hunt. Thank you!
Beautifully written - John
Larry Mosesson Simi Valley, CaliforniaBeautifully written - John Muir would give you an A+ for sensitivity and expression and just being a wonderful person
You saved my heart; and every
Nancy Jane Woodside Hyannis, MAYou saved my heart; and every time I read more of your work, I feel the joy
you keep on giving "writing from the heart." My own heart still beats because
your gift brought me back from the valley of the shadow of death. Thank you,
I loved the story. I had the
Rose Gates Milton, Ma.I loved the story. I had the most beautiful moment with a tree in my backyard today. I was compelled to sit in a chair I placed in my garden. I sat and just listened to the tree as it spoke to me. I often am on the go to find beautiful spots around town, or the Vineyard or the beach. I forgot to look in my own backyard. Teachers are everywhere.
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