Samantha, Anne, Julia and Glen Caldwell.
Courtesy Caldwell family

Offshore Ale Hosts Fundraiser for a Girl With a Lot of Moxie

On Sunday, March 15, the Offshore Ale Co. in Oak Bluffs will hold an all day fundraiser for Samantha Caldwell, a third grader at the Tisbury School fighting brain cancer. Throughout the day, 100 per cent of food profits will be donated to the Caldwell family.

For 11 years Glen Caldwell was the Sam Malone of the Vineyard, bringing a touch of Cheers to the Offshore Ale Co. Behind the bar, Mr. Caldwell remembered everyone’s name, even those who hadn’t stopped by for a beer in years. And each year on St. Patrick’s Day he presided over a full day affair that started with an Irish breakfast and jammed long into the night.

Currently Mr. Caldwell works for Sysco Foods, but on Sunday, March 15, he will be back at Offshore presiding over another Irish breakfast, and festivities that will stretch through the whole day and evening. But this year the event is not about celebrating an annual holiday. It is a celebration of community and friends coming together to help Glen and his family address their daughter Samantha’s fight against brain cancer.

Jam for Sam, as the event is being called, was thought up by Phil and Colleen McAndrews, the owners of the Offshore Ale Co.

Samantha Caldwell is a voracious reader who plays the drums and loves her pets.
Courtesy Caldwell family
Samantha Caldwell is a voracious reader who plays the drums and loves her pets.
Courtesy Caldwell family

“Phil texted me after the surgery and the pathology report came back, saying I figured out a way I can help,” Glen said. “So we’re pulling the gang back together.”

One hundred per cent of all food profits on Sunday will be donated to the Caldwell family. There will also be a silent auction taking place at the Offshore General Store, just a few doors down from the restaurant. Breakfast begins at 8 a.m. on Sunday, lunch at 11:30, and dinner at 5 p.m.

Samantha Caldwell is a nine-year-old third grader at the Tisbury School. She’s a huge reader, or as Glen says, “she devours books.” She loves her pets — a dog named Nellie, a cat named Pepper and a couple of goldfish. She also plays the drums.

“She’s got the 2-4 rock beat down and the Bo Didley beat,” Glen said. “Usually I grab the electric guitar and rock with her.”

Earlier this winter Samantha began having some stomach issues with vomitting and headaches but no fever, which at first didn’t seem alarming but as the symptoms continued, Glen and his wife Anne decided to take her to the hospital to check it out. As they were preparing to leave for the hospital, Samantha had a seizure and then another one when they reached the hospital. She was immediately helicoptered off the Island to Children’s Hospital in Boston. Three days later she underwent surgery to remove a brain tumor.

Samantha was up and walking around the very next day, Glen said, but she stayed at the hospital for a week to recover. She even got to participate in a video that appeared just before the Super Bowl. In it Samantha and other cancer patients are urging the Patriots on. In Samantha’s spot she tells the team it has moxie just like her.

Samantha was able to go back to school for a bit around Valentine’s Day, but then two weeks ago she began her daily treatments of radiation at the Francis H. Burr Proton Therapy Center in Boston. Each week Samantha and Anne head off-Island on Sunday night and remain there until Friday, staying at an apartment in Charlestown provided by a nonprofit called Home Away. During the week, Glen holds down the fort on the Island taking care of Samantha’s younger sister Julia, a six-year-old first grader at the Tisbury School.

“I showed Julia some clips from the old Odd Couple movie,” Glen said. “She decided that I’m Felix and she’s Oscar. But when I told Anne, she said ‘how in the world did you get to be Felix?’”

Samantha will receive radiation treatments for six weeks, along with small doses of chemotherapy, and then after a short break to get her strength back she will begin a full chemotherapy schedule for a period that could extend until December.

Glen reports that Samantha is doing well, under the circumstances. “She’s very much herself, although she is very aware of what is going on,” he said. “She’s maintained her sense of humor,” he added. Her teacher at the Tisbury School, Jill Waxweiler, and her classmates have been sending her cards and videos to keep her in touch with everyone back at school.

It is a very long haul, but to talk to Glen is to hear about a family who is holding it together under extremely difficult conditions, in part thanks to their friends and the community. Anne teaches freshman skills at the high school, and thanks to the high school's medical leave policy and generous colleagues who have donated their sick days to her, Anne feels the full support of the school, she said, and will be able to be spend the rest of the school year taking care of Samantha.

“The meal train has been awesome, too,” Glen said. During the week he said there isn’t much of a need with just he and Julia at the house, but on weekends, when the whole family finally gets to be together for two days, the prepared meals allow them to focus their time on each other, rather than cooking and doing the dishes.

“It’s a learning curve, accepting help and asking for help,” Glen said. “It feels weird but you need it. You can’t do it alone. So we are getting there. And Sunday's going to be a fun day.”

Jam for Sam takes place at the Offshore Ale Company in Oak Bluffs on Sunday, March 15 beginning at 8 a.m. and continuing throughout the day and evening. All of the food proceeds will be donated to the Caldwell family. In addition to a full day of food and music, there will be a silent auction held at the Offshore General store. Tax deductible contributions can also be made to the You’ve Got a Friend foundation. Mail checks to YGAF, Inc, c/o Samantha Caldwell, P.O. Box 1317, West Tisbury, Ma., 02575. Write Samantha Caldwell in the memo line of the check.

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 03/11/2015 - 12:58

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Robert Skydell Chilmark

Thank you for a wonderful article Bill and a huge thanks to Phil and Coleen McAndrews for hosting this.
Glen and I worked closely together for nearly ten years at Offshore and his presence made a huge difference. Although I will only be able to attend this event in spirit I want to thank everyone who participates in advance.
Hang in there Sam!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 03/11/2015 - 13:32

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Lorraine New Jersey

Can't get to our home in Katama until spring. Is there an address we can send a donation to?

Editor Vineyard Gazette

Lorraine, Tax deductible contributions can also be made to the You’ve Got a Friend foundation. Mail checks to YGAF, Inc, c/o Samantha Caldwell, P.O. Box 1317, West Tisbury, Ma., 02575. Write Samantha Caldwell in the memo line of the check.

Anne Caldwell Vineyard Haven

Hi Lorraine,
Thanks so much for your thoughtfulness & generosity. Our daughter is doing very well... just had her 3rd clear MRI two days ago and we are in the process of healing as a family. Our community is so wonderful and continues to support us post-treatment as Samantha gets back to her "new" normal.
Much gratitude,
Anne & family

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 03/11/2015 - 14:27

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Sam Cleland Oak Bluffs

For such a young person to be going through something like this is so unfair. She is a very brave young lady.
Luckily for Sammy she has an amazing family and is surrounded by ppl who love her. The Clelands will be there on Sunday.
We love you Sammy girl hang in there my little friend xo

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 03/11/2015 - 15:29

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Katie NYC

Please also let this lovely family know about Angel Flight, NE. They were wonderful when my father (who was the principal of Tisbury School for 23 years) needed to get off/on the island for chemo treatments. Contacts are Larry Camerlin 781-439-5330 and Keith D'Etremont 781-775-8455. If you need any help contacting them please feel free to email me at 310-463-7014. Thanks! Katie Campbell Milo

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 03/12/2015 - 20:14

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Ray & Carol Pearson Commerce Twp., Michigan

Our prayers are with all of you. Wish we could be there on Sunday. Stay strong! My Dad, Elisha Smith always talked about your little girls and how smart they are, and how he loved having them come to the farm.

God bless you all.

Anne Caldwell

Thank you. Your dad was a very special person and our family always loved seeing him at the farm and at Offshore Ale. Thanks for your prayers!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 03/13/2015 - 10:42

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John Rhoades The Tunnel Bar Northampton, MA.

Wish we could be there on Sunday but we will be celebrating our grandson's first birthday. Great job by the Offshore Ale folks and I will stop in as soon as we step off the ferry for a pint. We will be sending a check to help out. Good Luck Samantha. From all the folks in Western Mass who love the Vineyard have a great day and God bless you all.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 03/13/2015 - 11:30

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Elizabeth Page Diehl Kansas

Anne, we have a wonderful program here called There's a Monkey in My Chair. It is sponsored by the Love, Chloe Foundation. I would like to send a kit to you for Samantha. Google Love, Chloe Foundation to find out more about this wonderful organization. Would I have them send the kit to the same address as a monetary donation?

Anne Caldwell VH

Hi Elizabeth,
Sorry I never saw this way back when. I had no idea how we got the Monkey kit but I can tell you how much joy it brought to Sammy and to her classmates. Her 3rd grade teacher, Mrs. Waxweiler thought it was a wonderful resource and both she and Sammy's 4th grade teacher, Mrs. Herman, incorporated "Cecilia" (the name Sam gave it) into their classroom when Sam was away for treatments. Her classmates practically fought over who'd be in charge of C during each activity that they documented. The mini monkey was actually used by my younger daughter to help her feel connected to Samantha when she was away.
Thank you so much for this gift!
Anne

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 03/13/2015 - 16:12

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Susan in CT

and if the Home Away apartment is ever not available, there is a Hope Lodge in Boston (funded by the American Cancer Society and their wonderful volunteers/donors) -- where a person undergoing treatment and their loved one can stay for free.

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