Host, creator and producer of NPR show Says You!

Richard Sher, Creator of NPR Show Says You! Dies at 66

<p>The creator, executive producer and host of the National Public Radio game show Says You!, died Monday at Brigham &amp; Women&rsquo;s Hospital in Boston with his family at his bedside. He was 66 and had been a longtime summer resident of the Vineyard.</p>

Richard Sher, creator, executive producer and host of the National Public Radio game show Says You!, died Monday at Brigham & Women’s Hospital in Boston with his family at his bedside. He was 66 and had been a longtime summer resident of the Vineyard.

The weekly radio series he created has aired coast to coast for nearly two decades. A modern version of a parlor game, with comedic wit and wordplay, the show is played live and taped in front of audiences all around the country, including on the Vineyard last August at the Old Whaling Church in Edgartown.

“It’s not a free-for-all, but it’s a free-for-all,” Mr. Sher told the Gazette in an interview before the show was staged. “No mosh pits or stage rushing,” he said.

Born July 18, 1948 in Easton, Pa., he was the son of the late Albert and Jeanne Sher. His parents were founders and owners of Sherwoods for Kids, a children’s furniture and toy store in Easton. Richard graduated from Dickinson College in 1970, and received his graduate degree in communications from Boston University. He also became a certified optician working at the Massachusetts Eye and Ear during his graduate studies.

Prior to his success with Says You! he worked as a freelance producer and writer for Boston television WBZ’s Evening Magazine and WCVB’s Chronicle. His media company, Pipit & Finch, produced video for commercial purposes and documentaries on issues he was passionate about, such as autism. He was a resident of Weston.

“Richard had the uncanny ability to see something unique in each of us,” said panelist Paula Lyons, who lives in Vineyard Haven with her husband Arnie Reisman, also a panelist on the show. “And when stirred and blended his recipe satisfied all appetites for hilarity and intelligent fun. We have had a fabulous run because of this warm and funny man whom we will miss more than we can now imagine.”

Mr. Reisman said: “Richard and I shared a view of the planet — cynical but zany. We bonded and became brothers, broken up by humor and joined by disagreements. He was an entrepreneur of a style of programming where it feels like a big party and everyone is welcome. We all loved him and he will be sorely missed. I will never forget him — he’s never given me a reason to. And I can hear him now comically chastising me for ending that last sentence with a preposition.”

Other regulars on the show are Carolyn Faye Fox, Tony Kahn, Francine Achbar and Barry Nolan. The supporting cast includes two seasonal Islanders, Flash Wiley and Julie Jaffe.

In the Gazette interview last summer, Mr. Sher described the difference between seeing the show live and hearing it on the radio. “You don’t get to see the reactions,” he said of the radio show. “The disbelief, the scorn and the disrespect born of 20 years of love.”

He is survived by his wife, Laura Price Sher and his son, Benjamin Payne Sher of Weston. Laura is program producer for Says You! working for Richard’s media company, Pipit & Finch. An exceptionally devoted father, Richard assisted coaching staffs in Little League baseball and Tri-Town basketball over the last decade. He was an active participant in the stewardship of the town of Weston over the past 18 years, a frequent contributor to the Weston Town Crier and vivacious voice at the podium during town meetings.

Says You! will continue its broadcasts for the time being.

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 17:46

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Elizabeth Sherman North of Seattle, WA

I am so sorry to hear this. He brought many hours of laughter to me over the years. I admired his calm ability to hold the show together when the others took off on a humorous tangent. This is a loss for all of us. My condolences to those closest to him.

Maureen Sherman North of Seattle, Wa.

Oh My.... When I followed the thread of this story it lead me, quite unexpectedly to a comment made by my own daughter. I introduced that show to her. I don't know how many years before that I had listened to Richard and his incomparable literary aficionados. Richard... I will miss you. I was always HAPPY to have " a little fun at Websters expense". My condolences as well to his family and friends. I will always be grateful to have been "tuned in".

John Sahr Seattle

I'm saddened to hear of Richard's passing, but so grateful that my family got to see his show several times here. He's been a part of my KUOW Saturday evenings for years and years.

Rest in peace, Richard.

Kathleen McCowan Seattle

I had the pleasure of seeing several live broadcasts of "Says You". What a delight! My condolences to Richard's family. Many thanks for sharing his wit and sense of humor.

Anonymous Boston

As someone who personally knew Richard, this came as a shock and I want to send all my love to his family. I hope that no one will forget his wonderful show and his wonderful personality as well. I was so glad he was a part of my life as well as everybody's. He brought laughter to the world which I will truly miss.

GMurray Vermont

We were thrilled to have tickets to tonights Says You! in Dorset, VT, first timers. We were stricken to hear of Richard Sher's death. He certainly has left a legacy of intellegent fun! He will be missed and remembered by many. February 14, 2015

J. D. Rowell Sacramento

Why do I find two different "ages" for Richard Sher in news reports about his death? Both 66 and 74 have been reported and 1941 and 1948 have been reported as his birth year, Which, if either, is correct?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 17:59

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Heather Miller Champaign, Illinois

I work for WILL, pubic radio and TV for east central Illinois. My husband and I have been fans of the program for years. Last year it was a huge treat to have Says You here in Urbana. I had the priviledge to take the cast to their next stop in Indiana. It was truly my pleasure to have met Richard and his gang. They are all delightful and Sunday mornings won't be the same without his voice and humor and mathematical calculations.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 18:01

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Karen Olguin Bellevue,WA

So very sorry to hear this. I have so enjoyed his show. My condolences to his family and friends.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 18:21

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Julie Peddy Everett, WA

My thought and prayers are with his family and colleagues. "Says You!" always provides a mental challenge and a good hearty belly laugh, both of which are needed for good health. Just what the doctor ordered.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 18:26

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Kathy Lundquist Olympic Peninsula, WA

This is so hard! So sorry to hear this... such a genuine person. He came to our town to do a couple of shows one year. A real highlight. Especially sorry for the family's loss.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 18:36

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Barb Pew Also, North of Seattle, WA

My condolences to his family, the NPR family, and all listeners near and far. Such gentle humor, such intelligence, and such a clever show.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 19:30

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Betsy Frank Terre Haute

I will miss him. He was a great host! Condolences to his family.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 19:37

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Tim Seatle, WA

This is a shock! I love his show a lot! I've found nothing funnier on TV or radio. I was a regular listener until a couple months ago. I hope the show can continue with another host. I'd hate to see the whole thing go away after his death.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 19:52

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Lori & Jeff Birmingham, AL

Such sad news. Our Friday nights won't be the same. He brought us many laughs and surprises and happy moments. Our condolences to his family and all those on the show.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 20:03

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Barry Nelson Foxborough MA

This is incredibly sad news. A great loss for his family and for public radio. Richard will be sorely missed.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 20:13

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Joan Vermeulen Seattle

A sad moment for radio; Saturday evenings will not sound the same again. My condolences to the family and others dear to him.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 20:49

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Roger Lyons Natick

Very shocked and sad to hear of Richard's passing. He was a bright, sharp and energetic person, and a true original. I'll miss his smarts and his wit on Says You! and in real life, too.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 20:58

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Cornelia Schneider Mercer Island, Washington

I'm so sad to hear of the death of Richard Sher. My gosh, he was almost family in my household! I'm going to lift a glass a wine to Richard's memory. He gave my family years of pleasure and will be missed by many, many total strangers.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 21:02

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Sherry Reynolds Seattle

Clearly based on the comments in the thread those of us in Seattle loved Richard and the show and I will continue to. I send our families love and thoughts to his family and the rest of the show family.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 21:08

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Mark R. Scott Seattle

I just heard this sad news moments ago and can hardly believe it. I wish I did not have to, but my future Saturday evenings will always remind me. I am deeply saddened by this great loss to so many of us here. Thank you Richard you done good.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 21:31

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Jude Tucker Martha's Vineyard

Thanks for the memories.
Condolences to family and friends.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 21:33

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Denise Merkel Vincennes, Indiana

I am so saddened to hear this news. My heart goes out to his family and his Says You! cohorts. I discovered "Says You!" on a road trip with my son to Indiana Dunes not long after is started and have been hooked ever since. I had the honor of seeing them live in Bloomington this past May with my son in what I considered one of their best shows. I have enjoyed playing along, Richard, thank you.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 21:38

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Jeff Hickey Seattle

From the other coast, the other side of the country, I want to say we all mourning too. The Seattle shows this fall were pure delight. Richard bought great joy to an uncountable number of people. I will miss him greatly.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 21:38

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Lela Chimacum, WA

Richard was an incredibly generous friend to our little community out here. Our thoughts and love go to his wife and son, and to his "Says You" family.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 21:45

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Eliza Sutton Seattle

I'm so sorry to hear this news. We have loved listening to the bluff and bluster, words and whimsy of Says You! for years including the several shows we saw live at Seattle Town Hall, most recently just a few months ago. My thoughts go out to Richard's family and friends in their time of loss.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 21:46

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Kathy McCluskey Seattle, WA

This is so sad, I love his humor and wit. Seeing the show performed live (twice, in Seattle, my hometown) was a highlight for me. My deepest sympathies to his family and those closest to him.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 21:50

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Cindy Penner Seattle WA

Our condolences to the family and to the extended Says You family as well. Our family has enjoyed this show for many years, and were able to attend the Seattle live shows every year for many years. This was such a sad surprise to hear on NPR this evening....warm thoughts and remembered chuckles being sent to you all.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 21:56

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Bill Graham Port Hadlock, WA

Wow. This is a crushing loss. Looking at all the comments, you can see how far-reaching his impact was - particularly in western Washington State - within the radio range of KUOW 94.9. Says You actually came to my area on the Olympic Peninsula not once, but twice. I missed those live shows, but heard the broadcasts, and rarely missed any of the rest of them regardless of their cross-country locales. Personally, I am grateful for Richard and Says You for saving my sanity immediately after 9/11. Living alone, I leaned hard on public radio to make sense of what happened. And I soon needed some relief from the depths of the news had plunged me. This show helped me, and probably thousands of other people, to laugh again. I have even thought that if I'd gotten a chance to meet Richard I would tell him that. While I never got that chance, I'll send it up now into the ether.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 22:02

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Lori Oncina Mercer Island

What a huge loss. Loved his show for years! Sincere condolences to his family and friends.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 22:03

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Lorin Wold Renton WA

Richard was very funny and made the show great with the way he interacted with the panelists as well as with the audience. I didn't have the chance to know him outside of the show but I have little doubt he was as personable as I heard. My personal condolences to his family and friends(I have little doubt he had many)

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 22:31

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Joyce Alexander Seattle

Richard Sher and his gang have been such a bright spot for me on Saturday evenings. I will miss them terribly.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 22:33

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Lissa Massachusetts

I am shocked and saddened to hear this news. I've been enjoying listening and attending shows for many years. What a loss. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 22:42

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Mark J. Brenner Worcester, MA

What a loss of a truly good guy. My heartfelt condolences to the Sher family, and to his radio show family.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 22:46

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Susan Gluss Berkeley, Calif

Oh Richard, I never had the chance to say good-bye. Our friend Debbie L. shared the sad news. Richard was my T.A. in grad school in Boston. He was a friend, career counselor, and bright light in the dark. In the early days of "Says You," he'd invite friends to fill the audience. But soon there were crowds galore. Richard was a lovable jokester and an incredibly talented producer. He once told me in jest that his tombstone should read, "Now this I didn't plan for" (the heck with grammar). My thoughts and prayers are with his loving family: Laura, Ben, and Oscar.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 23:00

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marge Samuelson Port Townsend WA

So sorry for his family. Hard to express how Richard affected my life. Once in a while I got something right, Saturdays will not be the same. Thank you for making my life so much richer.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 23:02

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Harvey Niebulski Seattle, WA

I will forever recall with a smile the frabjous joy he brought to me and so very, very many of us both in person and via NPR and our radios.
My heart goes out to Richard's dear loved ones.
May you all find comfort in this very difficult time.

Mardie Holden Seattle, WA

I was so shocked to hear this, and saddened for his friends, family and the whole extended radio family, including me, who enjoyed Richard's good humor every week. And now a smile to think of the frabjous times I had listening to the program, and the fun learning new words. I'm so grateful he dreamed up this radio show, and gathered the clever panel, and got KUOW to air it.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 23:05

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Virgeen Healey Maumelle, AR

So sorry to hear of the loss of Says You creator, producer and host Richard Sher. Says You is a weekend mainstay which has brought me many chuckles and thoughtful insight through the years. Thank you! Sending prayer and major MoJo to all those who loved him. He touched many of us.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 23:18

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Hal Mozer Bellevue WA

Sad and shocked. RIP, Richard. I have so enjoyed the show, especially the times I saw it being taped live in Seattle

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/10/2015 - 23:37

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Sam Timbers Lakewood, Washington

I will miss you. It was ritual of the best parts of my life to listen while I made supper Saturday nights. Thanks for all the great shows.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 02/11/2015 - 00:03

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Barbara Hindi Seattle, WA

Richard's wonderful voice and wit and humor will be greatly missed. You were a great gift to this world, Richard. Thank you!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 02/11/2015 - 00:28

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Dorothy Anthony North of Seattle, WA

Condolences to Richard's family, and to his colleagues of "Says You." So enjoyed the humor and obvious comradery among everyone on the show. Thank you for asking for countless definitions that made me smile.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 02/11/2015 - 01:37

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Gregg Porter Seattle WA

I am deeply wounded by this loss. I feel very honored to have spoken with Richard many times over the years. He has often said that the idea for "Says You" was hatched in Seattle, while he was in the audience for a live broadcast of "Potluck" featuring an appearance by his fiddler friend Frank Ferrel, in the early '90s. As I produced that show, he told me he considered me a "godfather" to "Says You." He truly loved how Seattle embraced his dream (it even frightened him a little to appear before a huge, enthusiastic Seattle audience the first time they traveled so far from their home base) - Richard, I hope you knew how much Seattle (and the rest of the nation) loved you. We now send that love to his family, and to the panelists and his radio team. Our broadcast day is permanently a little dimmer. Aloha `oe.

Gregg Porter Seattle WA

On the third anniversary of Richard's passing, my joy at having joined the program as host is tempered by the sadness at the circumstances leading to that opportunity. My fond wish is to do honor to his show, his vision, and his memory in that role. To receive the affection of his families (both his home and radio ones) has been an cherished gift.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 02/11/2015 - 02:13

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Mary Metz Seattle

"Shocked and sorry" seems to be the unifying thread in the comments here and I have to say that I am both. Condolences to all who knew this wonderful man; I'll miss his "could be, could be . . . or, it could be something else."

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 02/11/2015 - 02:49

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Adrienne Wicks Tacoma, WA

Shocked and saddened. Condolences to Richard's family and friends.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 02/11/2015 - 02:58

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Stacey Fischer Seattle WA

As with my fellow PNWesterners, Richard will be sorely missed. The collaboration he made with his panelists (keeping it short, but we love you all), was so natural; it's as though they were all siblings and we were extended family. It's not just that you expanded our minds, but filled our hearts with pure, beverages-through-nostril-laughter. Ever indebted for the joy, knowledge and laughter that Richard and the cast of "Says You" gave us.

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