Family and Friends Pay Tribute to Life of Bob Dutton in His Own Words

On Friday, the day after Bob Dutton died, friends and family celebrated him with a virtual live reading of his three-act play, The Ivory Door.

In an outpouring of love and support, friends from throughout Bob Dutton’s life and career pulled together over the week before he died to produce a live reading of his three-act play with lyrics, The Ivory Door.

Though Mr. Dutton did not live to watch the online debut of his work Friday morning, he did see his vision realized, his wife Molly Conole told the audience on Zoom.

“He was able to be at the dress rehearsal yesterday,” she said, through tears.

Mr. Dutton died on Thursday night, at home on the Vineyard.

Mr. Dutton grew up on the Vineyard and graduated from the regional high school in 1979. After a long career in theatre he returned to the Island with his wife and two children and became the managing director of the Martha’s Vineyard Film Society.

Among the actors and crew taking part in Friday’s play — 33 in all — more than a dozen were castmates of Mr. Dutton’s from his years as a character actor at Walt Disney World’s Adventure Club.

“He always arrived with a contagious joy,” wrote Greg Triggs, who directed The Ivory Door, in the play’s virtual program.

Others in the show included classmates of Mr. Dutton’s from Emerson College, where he earned a degree in theatre directing; comrades from theatres in Florida and on the Vineyard, former drama students, best friends and Mr. Dutton and Ms. Conole’s children, Mia Dutton and Simon Dutton.

For the many people, on Island and beyond, who knew Mr. Dutton as a student, actor, teacher, theatre director or simply as a friend, Friday’s performance was both a celebration of and testament to his life.

“This is a tale of his vision of the world,” Ms. Conole said as she introduced The Ivory Door, which Mr. Dutton based very loosely on the 1929 play of that name by A.A. Milne.

Retaining Milne’s castle-and-kings setting and the symbolic door of the title, Mr. Dutton created an entirely new set of characters and adventures to tell the tale of a perplexed young prince, Sheridan, and how he finds his way to happiness through a carved ivory door that everyone else believes is accursed.

All the characters were drawn so expertly that a physical theatre wasn’t necessary for the audience to enter into Sheridan’s world, a kingdom out of a fairytale where the only magic is in the human mind.

Mr. Dutton’s mastery of dramatic storytelling was evident not only in his characters’ fluid dialogue, but in the lyrics he wrote for the show and the stage directions — voiced by one of the performers — that brought tapestries and stained-glass windows to life.

Mr. Dutton, who came out as bisexual in recent years, also transformed the traditional fairytale ending into a celebration of inclusiveness. King Sheridan’s kingdom already recognizes plural marriage, so he legalizes same-sex unions as well and weds both his beloved boyhood friend and a wise princess, with whom he plans a family.

“Ignorance is the only enemy,” the young king tells his two spouses. “I refuse to fear the truth of who I am, and who I am with you, and also with you.”

In place of a curtain call after the more than five-hour performance, Ms. Conole returned to the screen with words of gratitude for the company.

“Thank you for this incredible gift of your time, of treasuring Bob’s many words,” she said. “You brought them all to life on such short notice, and so, so beautifully from your hearts.”

“You’ve given us the greatest gift as a family,” Ms. Conole added. “We will treasure this always.”

Simon Dutton added his thanks in the Zoom chat box, writing to his father’s friends that “(w)e are so grateful you were all able to be here to share this beautiful piece of his, which of course told his story perfectly.”

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 08/31/2020 - 14:56

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Molly Conole Oak Bluffs

Thank you, Louisa, for so beautifully capturing Bob's work and his spirit in this article. We are so grateful.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 09/01/2020 - 12:57

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Susanna J. Sturgis West Tisbury

Having watched last Friday's reading of THE IVORY DOOR, I'm still awed by the perfect casting and excellent performances, made all the more remarkable by the very, very short production schedule. Bob was a major force in Vineyard theater in the 1990s, before he and Molly moved to Florida, and he's been a big influence at the Film Center since their return. We're going to miss him so much.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 09/02/2020 - 09:24

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Keifus Mathews Around the Way

I have very fond memories of Bob, we laughed, worked together, and shared so many memories, will miss him, wish I knew but I found out after the fact. Rest easy my friend. Gone WAY too soon.
My shoe!

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Mari McAvenia Providence

No! This will take a while to sink in. Bob was so pivotal at the start of my writing career. While he owned and ran Island Entertainment, in the 80s, I worked in the production department at the M.V. Times. With 2 very young kids to feed and a mortgage to pay, one child still an infant, I took on as many jobs as I could get. Doug Cabral heard me talking to the "girls" in the backroom one Tuesday night (Joan Merry, Susie Safford and Mae Deary ) and said, "You've got a fire in your belly! Can you write?" I jumped on it and began to create a weekly movie review column. Hey, for 20 bucks a pop I couldn't refuse. Bob Dutton GAVE me videos, for free, to watch and review. If I wanted something fringy, edgy or esoteric he would order it for me. I adore Bob Dutton, still, and always had a secret crush on the man. There, it's out. I was thrilled when he and Molly found each other and I was over the moon when their first child was born.
A theatrical dilettante since adolescence, this couple inspired me to audition for Lee Fiero who was directing "Belles" at the time. I landed the part of Audrey, a childless ventriloquist with a rich fantasy life and loved every rehearsal and performance at the Cornell. I could go on. I LOVE you, Molly, and I will always respect dear Bob. RIP, my dear inspiration.

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